WE SHOULD COMPROMISE IN A RELATIONSHIP

Today I traveled for a long journey. I met a driver whose age was between 55 to 60 years. I will call him “Baba” in the Article. told me a very heart touching story of his life. After hearing his story, I became so upset. I think that he was at an age of 60’s. Baba was still doing a job of driving and was earning money for himself.

Baba told me that life is a good teacher. Baba teaches more than any of the professor of the world. I’m so confused about him. Baba was a father of two sons’. Baba told me that my wife is living apart from me with one of my son due to some family matters in which both are at the Pertinacity. Baba further clarified that he tried to conform her once but failed. Now this man is suffering from anxiety and depression at this age where the unity is very much necessary for both to live happily. Baba is living with another son. Baba was very upset for his wife but still he was not thinking to compromise for his dignity and values.

The more surprising and shameful act which he tells about is that our worst people living in our society. Baba said that my fellows make me fool on daily basis. They make fun and enjoy this state. They don’t know my inner feelings. They can’t feel this because they haven’t faced this situation. This is a very shameful and Unethical practice of our society. Why these people are living with our society. These people do not deserve to be part of our society. These bullies are the needy people and we have to help them to change their attitude. They should be educated of the manners of how to deal with such innocent people which are already victim of depressions and are at this age of their life.

Furthermore, I advised baba that you should ignore these people. They do not know your inner feelings that’s why they are doing like this. When you start ignoring them they will automatically feel this ignorance and will Tyrannize themselves to stop bulling.

Furthermore, I told baba that the relation of a wife and husband is very critical. This relation can only survive with compromise. In this relation one of the person has to compromise of his dignity and honor. If both of the person stand still with his ego and honor, then this relation cannot run smoother. If there in a strike fight or disagreement on any matter one of person has to sacrifice their feelings and should accept the decision of the other.

I advised baba, although he was senior to me, that you should have to make a try to agree her to live with you. If she still disagrees you, you should try again, if she still not agrees you should make another try in a different way, and if she still not agree leave it at the mercy of Allah, but do not close the doors of your house for her any time. If there comes a time that she came back to live with you must accept her proposal any time. At least baba agreed to me and promised me that he will definitely try again and again.

Now I’m going to conclude this real life story on the two very important points.

  1. We have to sort out the bad and worst mind people in our community and have to educate them, that they should not to make fun of such type of innocent people. Sensibly they should have to help them in solving their problems so that they can live with dignity rather than anxiety.
  2. We have to look back at our marital life and will have to remove any accusation and remonstrance if present that can cause sorrows and Ruefulness in future. This relation is a gift from Allah to all human beings. This is the only relation that can never be fulfilled by any of the world. So we have to think about it and be thankful to Allah for such a wonderful relation. In spite of daily routine tasks we have to give a sufficient amount of time to our family. This will strengthen the relation more and will help to know and understand one’s feelings and thoughts.We have to sort out the bad and worst mind people in our community and have to educate them, that they should not to make fun of such type of innocent people. Sensibly they should have to help them in solving their problems so that they can live with dignity rather than anxiety.

Thanks to all of you that you read the article. Re-blog this Article, not only for me but for those innocent people who are victims of such type of bullying. I need your help to stop bullying and educate bullies.

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43 thoughts on “WE SHOULD COMPROMISE IN A RELATIONSHIP

  1. I believe we should never listen to other’s critics and what they say or think about us! What matters is us! What the others want is always to judge us! We just don’t have to waste our time with them!
    For the couple I guess respect is very important! When two people in love, respect themselves, there is always harmony 🙂

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  2. Many people feel happy above the suffering of others. Hopefully, Baba will soon find the best solution to the problem being faced. Thank you, my friend, for sharing this very touching story as a lesson for all of us to respect one another.

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  3. Bullying needs to stop. For the young, for the old and everyone in between. There are so many mean people out there. Why can’t we just all get along & respect each other whether we agree or not? The earth would be a much better place. I hope Baba finds peace & happiness through compromise. You did a wonderful deed.

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  4. It’s good to share real life story and try to help some person to make their life better
    This life is so hard and it’s harder if we listen to stupid people, to sick people that try to destroy because they are too weak to build! In relationships, whenever 2 persons are unable to have decent relationship, they must end it immediately, of course they can try to fix things but we can’t force love and reconciliation, it’s whether there it it’s not!
    Thank you for sharing 👍

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    1. Thank you so much Huguette, It’s been a great pleasure to me that you spare some time for my blog and appreciated me, Now I think I’m really getting into the blogging after reading youor feedback. Thanks a lot. The point you should mentioned is reasonable to end up the relation, but ending a relation at an early age will be a very good choice rather to let live with dis-satisfaction for so long.

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      1. It’s my pleasure and as I can see you have many readers already so it’s not my opinion that matters, the blog is already successful
        Yes of course it should be at early age, no one needs to suffer and wait for nothing

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    1. Absolutely right Rozina, we should ignore them, In this way they will feel shame in their hearts and will slowly left criticism. Thanks Rozina for reading the article and recommendation. Thanks for your time and consideration.

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    1. Thanks Patricka for your feedback. You are right because this relation can’t survive with out compromise and patience. In married life there comes too many moments that were we should be conscious.

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  5. My Dear Rising Star, I would guess that You are a Young person. Appreciate Your Zeal. …Sacrifice, in Any relationship, is Important, of course. Also, Early in life I learnt that We NEVER Compromise. That is giving up on Values. What We have to do is called ‘Adjustments.’ …Regards.

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  6. You said whatever about those bullied guys,your advices are absolutely wise.i agree with your every lines.wonderful and thought provoking article.yeah,true-we should compromise in a relation.as you say-i try to reblog your post on my blog.thanks for sharing of painful experience of that Baba.i have seen here these type events.

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    1. Thank you so much aruna, I am so happy with the response of all of you my sweet WordPressian’s. I am so inspired from all of you. It always feel’s good when someone read’s and understand your wordings. Thank you so much for your response.

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  7. Well thought out. Bullying of any sort comes from a degree of ignorance and misunderstanding. Through dialogue, and finding middle ground, mutual direction can arise and heal all divisive barriers that stand in the way of a healthy relationship. I look forward to reading more.

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